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Season 8 Episode Transcripts
Episode 1
DB explores the world of pleasure and sensuality with Ev'Yan Whitney, Sexuality Doula and author of the book “Sensual Self.” They discuss purity culture, how society's limited views on sex and pleasure can impact an individual’s relationship with sensuality, and how we can shift our mindset to embrace a more expansive view of pleasure. Ev'Yan also shares tips on how to cultivate a more mindful and pleasurable relationship with the body, both inside and outside of the bedroom.
Episode 2
Get ready to have your mind blown! Our guest is the incredible astrologer and author Nadine Jane, and she's here to give us a crash course on how astrology can impact our sex lives. From the basics of birth charts to the impact of planets like Mars and Venus on our libidos, Nadine has the scoop. Plus, she shares some juicy stories about how astrology has helped her clients spice up their love lives. Don't miss out on this episode full of cosmic revelations!
Episode 3
Join DB as she explores the world of sex positivity and self-discovery with the fearless hosts of Come Curious and F***s Given, Florence Barkway and Reed Amber! They spill the beans on how they met on a porn set, the birth of their YouTube channel, what it’s like to have a fetish, and their saucy adventures at a young Swingers Week in Jamaica. Even with their self-confidence and self-awareness, they reveal their ongoing journey in figuring out their sexuality, identity, and relationships. Plus: a sex tip that's applicable to everyone.
Episode 4
DB interviews Dr. Cassandre Dunbar, host of the podcast Be Well, Sis, about the realities of motherhood and wellness. They dive deep into what it means to truly be well as a mother and the importance of prioritizing true self-care. Dr. Dunbar shares her expertise on recovering from childbirth, the benefits of taking time for oneself, and the impact that self-care can have on a mother's mental health. A don’t-miss conversation for any mother looking to prioritize their well-being and for anyone trying to find balance in their daily lives.
Episode 5
In this episode, DB interviews Alex Hall from The Bottom’s Digest to discuss all things bottoming! Alex shares insights from his personal experiences with bottoming and debunks some of the common misconceptions associated with it. The two dive into the topic of food and its impact on sexual play, revealing some surprising connections between diet and sexual performance. Who knew that what you eat could have such an impact on your sex life?! Whether you're a seasoned bottom or just curious about the world of bottoming, you won't want to miss this one!
Episode 6
DB dives headfirst into a hilarious and informative conversation with sexologist Goody Howard, MSW, MPH about oral sex, confidence inside and outside of the bedroom, and the 18 different types of orgasms! Plus, they discuss how to build a small business as a sexual health educator and how science can help us understand pleasure. She’ll have you laughing, blushing, and taking notes.
Episode 7
In this episode, DB interviews Ambreen Molitor, the National Director of Innovation at Planned Parenthood Federation of America. They discuss the role of AI in sex education, cutting-edge tech initiatives by Planned Parenthood, and the growing importance of data privacy in sex tech. Tune in for a captivating conversation on the future of sex education and the innovative strides being made in the field!
Episode 8
In this episode, DB interviews the brilliant Dr. Jennifer Mullan, founder of Decolonizing Therapy. Dr. Mullan shares her professional journey and how her experiences in therapy have shaped her current work. She explains the concept of Decolonizing Therapy and discusses the impacts of historical and intergenerational trauma on our lives. Dr. Mullan also explores the importance of centering rage and how she came to be known as the Rage Doctor! Tune in for an insightful conversation on healing, empowerment, and decolonization!
Episode 9
Join us for a fantastic conversation with the incredible couple, Elle and Ezra! They discuss their journey from friends to lovers and how that impacted their friend group and their own lives. They also discuss trans joy, using comedy to combat haters, and the importance of advocating for trans rights in today's political and media landscape. Elle and Ezra share their unique perspective on the power of humor and reclaiming narratives. Don’t miss this!
Episode 10
What happens when Roe v. Wade is overturned, and how does it impact the abortion landscape in the US? Join us for a riveting discussion with Garnet Henderson, senior multi-platform reporter for Rewire News Group and host of ACCESS: A Podcast about Abortion. DB and Garnet delve into the history of the medical system's relationship with abortion, and the rise of anti-abortion violence, and how folks can still access abortion even in a post-Roe America. They also discuss the criminalization of self-managed abortions and the disproportionate effects on people of color, low-income individuals, young people, and those living in the South and Midwest. Lastly, Garnet shares her thoughts on the ties between the anti-abortion movement and far-right political violence in the US. Tune in for an eye-opening episode that uncovers the ongoing fight for reproductive rights and justice.
Episode 11
Join DB for an enlightening exploration into the wonderful world of kink and fetishes with the brilliant Arielle Greenberg, a seasoned kinkster and author of the upcoming book Super Freaks. They cover a range of topics from positive representations of kink in media, to the intersection of queerness and kink. Arielle even gives DB a kink quiz! Arielle also shares her insights on the most common and least common fetishes, the psychology behind kink, and the magical allure they hold. Don't miss out on this kinky conversation - tune in now!
Episode 13
Listen in as we welcome the award-winning psychologist, sexologist, and professor, Dr. Candice Nicole, for a riveting discussion on her groundbreaking sex research. DB and Dr. Candice explore the fascinating world of sex and pleasure, examining the impact of different partnerships on sexual function. Dr. Candice shares intriguing insights from her research, emphasizing the importance of centering Black people in scientific research for a more inclusive understanding of our sexual selves. Join us as we navigate the complex terrain of ethical non-monogamy, discussing how it varies across different backgrounds. We touch on asexuality within this context, the forgotten free love movement of the 70s, and the pressures of finding 'the one' to fulfill all needs. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation!
Episode 14
On this episode we welcome the delightful Alayna Joy, lesbian and LGBTQ+ YouTuber and content creator who speaks candidly about her “late bloomer” queer experience. Alayna opens up about the evolution of her queer identity, pandemic-induced gay awakenings, and the importance of centering mental health while embracing your queerness for the first time. It's a conversation that will enlighten, inspire, and hopefully, provide comfort to those who may need it.
Episode 15
Join us we welcome our favorite guest back to the pod, DB’s mom Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt, to talk about all things vaginal health. This episode takes a close look at the prevalence and importance of diagnosing vaginal infections and conditions, which Dr. Levy-Gantt has experienced firsthand through her patients' stories. She emphasizes the importance of in-person diagnosis and enlightens us about the wide age range of her patients and the unique challenges they face.
Episode 16
Calling all bi babes! Join us for an amazing conversation with Zachary Zane, author of "Boy Slut." DB and Zach discuss her bisexual awakening, the challenges and privileges that come with being bisexual, and the power of vulnerability in sharing personal stories. Zachary generously shares his journey of understanding his sexuality and the impact of his public persona on his decision to be open about it. The conversation extends to the intricacies of bisexuality and pansexuality, the nuances of non-monogamous relationships, and the importance of community and queer spaces. Don’t miss this one!
Episode 17
We're thrilled to welcome back Pidgeon Pagonis, a powerhouse in intersex education and advocacy! From their #EndIntersexSurgeries campaign to their continual focus on prioritizing intersex joy, their recent endeavors are nothing short of inspiring. Pidgeon shares more about their activist journey, highlighting the need for self-care to avoid burnout in this work. DB and Pidgeon also discuss the healing power of psychedelics, and Pidgeon's transition from a trauma-focused narrative to one of joy and self-discovery. We also get a sneak peek into Pidgeon's new book "Nobody Needs to Know," available everywhere books are sold.
Episode 18
DB sits down with Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, to shed light on maintaining healthy conflict resolution, intimacy, and communication in a long-term relationship. They also dive into Dr. Lexx's work in the world of sex-positive parenting, unraveling what it means and how to address personal trauma and therapy's role in the journey towards becoming a sex-positive parent. In a world where sex education is often shrouded in fear, Dr. Lexx guides breaks down how provide shame-free sex education to our children, fostering a future of non-judgmental understanding of sex.
Episode 19
DB sits down with Winnie, Community Outreach and Training Chair for Stand With Abortion Now (SWAN), to talk revolutionary optimism, punk rock-style activism, TikTok fundraising, and unorthodox strategies to outwit anti-abortion protestors in Orlando, Florida. They dive into SWAN's extremely successful Tiktok presence, why it's resonating, and how to use social media as an effective tool in activist work. Winnie shares more about the ongoing struggle for abortion access in Florida, as the clinic SWAN supports is facing a $193,000 fine for violating the 24-hour law. DB and Winnie discuss the right-wing nonsense that has made abortion increasingly inaccessible, and how their organization has been able to fundraise an unprecedented amount to fight the fine. Donate now to support the crucial work SWAN is doing in Florida!
Episode 20
In the Season 8 Finale, DB chats with the brilliant Sean Saifa Wall, an intersex activist, scholar, and star of the new documentary "Every Body." They explore identity, breaking free from binary, and the importance of broadening our understanding of gender and sex. They also touch on intersex joy as a way to counterbalance trauma. Join for this insightful wrap-up to Season 8!
